Its been a while since I posted. Basically it is because I have not really had much activity. I continue to send out messages, just getting few responses. The few responses I do get fizzle out really quickly and do not lead to dates.
I had a little hope last week when i thought I might have the chance to meet two women. One on Thursday evening for drinks and one on Friday for a lunch date. Thursday's date was cancelled. She said that after a 10 minute conversation that she did not feel we had any chemistry. The second date I did not even get the courtesy of communication. I tried to call multiple times to set up the date. Texts were not responded to. Funny since she was the one who initiated communication.
I am guessing this is all for the better. I want to meet the right woman, not just many woman, and obviously these 2 were not it.
Now for the Subject of the post.
A majority of females post claim that honesty is important to them in a relationship. This is great. Honesty is important to me as well. the problem is many woman are obviously lying about their age on their profiles. Also regarding body type, I thing many women are not honest with themselves when selecting. Most put average when they are clearly a BBW or could use a few pounds. I guess technically with the fattening of America they are average. Still it is misleading and they know it. Some select average so they will show up in more searches. I have even seen obese women have the audacity to select Athletic as a body type.
If you can't be honest in your profile, how do you expect honesty out of a relationship. When it comes to online dating, reading your profile is how the relationship begins, and if you lie here it is doomed from the start.
* I forgot to mention using old photos (especially when asking for new ones from others), cherry picking photos and taking photos from angles that hide your weight. *
