Back in the water...

So last week I had 3 dates scheduled.  As previously stated the first date was a bust.

My second date was on Thursday.  We were scheduled to meet at 7pm but she requested to push it to 8.  I agreed.  It is almost 8:30 before she shows.  When I see her, I think about excusing myself to the rest room so I can update my status to NEXT, once again.  But I give her a shot.  At least she didnt look older than her photos.  A little heavier yes but not older.  I spent the time to get to know her and even ended the date with a kiss.

My third date on Friday in Staten Island was cancelled because I did not contact her between Monday and Friday.  Lesson learned.  But then again, I really did not want to drive to SI anyway.

On Saturday I met up with date #2 for drinks at Croxley's in Farmingdale.  This time she was 45 minutes late.  And since I was 10-15 minutes early, that meant me spending about an hour in the parking lot.   Speaking with her she let me know that she is a perpetually late person, and it would be something I would have to deal with.  We ended the night with another kiss but it left me thinking.

In regards to my previous post, yes I would have slept with her if given the opportunity.   As I said I have no problem with the general definition of casual sex.  The problem is both parties have to be on the same page.  She let me know that she wanted to get to know me better before taking that step. I was already on the fence, and I am not really sure I want to get to know her beyond a physical thing.  Since we are not on the same page, and I don't play games, I have my hook back in the water.