* This is an extension of a facebook update that prompted quite a few comments so I thought I would move it to the blog *
I don't believe in casual sex. Nothing about sex should ever be casual.
Casual sex is having sex outside of a traditional or romantic relationship. While the choice of sexual partners and timing may be deemed casual, the actual sex should be anthing but.
If anything sex with a regular partner and especially between a married couple would should be deemed more casual than casual sex. Many times this is exactly what leads to the end of relationships. Sex may then become routine and typically more and more infrequent.
In the comments prostitues were referrenced more than once, claiming that they would be considered casual sex. How can anything that is illegal and considered taboo my most people considered casual. If anything it is the furthest thing from casual sex. You have to worry about getting arested. Will it be worth the money. Why do I feel empty after. She has to worry about her saftey and whether you are going to try to rip her off. And both of you have to worry about STDs and your physical saftey. Now if you think that is casual there is something wrong with your thought process.
I am not saying you should limit yourself to traditional relationships. We all have our different morals and how precious we hold sex may be different to each of us. I do think if you are choosing to have sex with multiple partners I think you should be honest with them (and no lies of omission here), or at the very least please be safe.
But the actual sex. Please dont let it be casual. You should be looking for nothing less than fireworks. Otherwise why bother.
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